When younger I could feel bound to my sexual identity. The giver. Quietly I could possess in the act of giving.
Being older I now see that I often took more than I gave; I masked my needs in the pleasure of others. I could form long-term relationships on this.
Now; I delight in the sharing of time and space. There is still taking, but it feels equal.
To lie in someones arms is to join them. A breast warms my face and I do do not seek to possess it. I seek to revel in joining that person for a (glorious) moment in time.
